Anal Sex Guide For Beginners

Preparing Your Backdoor for Anal Sex

No matter whether you’re male or female, there are several things you must prepare to have anal sex the very first time. We’ve prepared a list of all the necessary things you’ll need to cover prior to your first anal sex session:

1. Get Some Anal Lube

Lube is a crucial component for all Backdoor play and anal sex. Although you can use lube for this purpose, anal lube is typically longer-lasting and thicker, which makes it better-suited for anal stimulation.

2. Testing with Your Finger

Prior to using Butt Plugs, you need to start small. Your pinky finger is a great first object to practice with. Practice exercises with your pinky, then try your other fingers (and later, anal toys and your first Butt Plugs) to stretch your anus as well as help prepare it for your first anal sex session. These also let you get used to the sensations. Begin by lubing and inserting your pinky. Then rub it slowly around the base of the sphincter until it relaxes and opens.

Slowly insert much more of the pinky while you continue massaging the sphincter. Once you have more experience, you can shift to bigger fingers and begin using a few at once. The most important rule in anal play is taking it slow and taking it easy. If at any time it begins to hard, then stop and take a rest.

3. Using Anal Toys for the First Time

Once the fingers of yours aren’t straining the anal opening, it’s time to move on to anal toys. We recommend you start with an anal trainer kit or a Butt Plug that has a graduated shaft. Trainer kits generally include 3 toys that range from smaller to bigger sizes. A toy that has a graduated shaft starts tiny at the point, then steadily grows larger. Generally, you want to have a toy that’s big enough to test the limits and something that will keep challenging you as you get more experience with anal penetration.

4. Continuing Onward

What goes on next is your choice. Many people are satisfied with just a bit of anal play and fingering. If you are into anal teasing, you can take the following steps to try anal sex for the first time.

There is, however, quite a difference between anal play and anal sex, so make sure your partner is completely comfortable with the choice you both make. It is crucial not to pressure or hurry them. No matter what, you’ll need to practice with both toys and fingers before you do anal sex for the very first time.

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